Is it right to use violent as a source of discipline for children? No! There are many ways to rise and discipline children. Children need to be love and nature. Many times we the adults don't do our job right from the start. That means teaching and showing them the way from an earlier stage. Most of the time adults don't really decipline children until they are older therefore it is to late. There is an old saying that states "one most hit an iron rode while it is still red and hot". This saying is true when it comes to properly rising children. Many children already started to develop their personalities at an earlier age.
Adults don't' model themselves well. Most of the time children pick up on the adults bad habits and behavior. Most of the time it is very difficult to make a difference in children when adults don't set good examples. Adults use violence because it is an lazier way of discipline. When hitting a child, the adult does not have to worry about explaining the consequence.
Adults who use violence are lazy parents. They don't want to take the time to properly rise their children so they use voilence as a mean of discipline hoping to get results. The end result is hurting the children more and damaging their self esteem.
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I think some kids needs to be hit in order for them to learn which is the right direction. I do agree with you too because most kids learn verbally but some few do need a tap on the butt.
ReplyDeleteI agree with you, what is the point of hitting your child and possibly making them afraid of you- that is not a good way to go. Instead like you said the adult should model the "right" behavior and at least talk things out with their child.
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