Sunday, November 8, 2009

Why Do Children Behave The Way They Do?

Why do children behave the way they do? There are a lot of things that make children behave the way the do. Friends and peer pressure does play a big part in making one's self behave the way they do. But I think the most important thing that made kids behave the way they do is the parents. Parents allowed their children to behave the way they do. Parents should be in control and take complete control of the children. Parents should teach their children to take responsibilities in whatever the children do and discipline their children if not followed by what they parents asked them to do.
Other reason is that parents are not communicating enough with each other to figure out whats best for the children. Some parents are way too busy with work and other stuff and forgets all about their children. This cause parents and children to not have enough time with each other together as a family. Parents then start to pay more attention to other things and they don't know what children wants and needs anymore. Children then go out with friends more and more because they don't get enough attention from their parents. And when they see that their friends are there for them more than their parents, then they tend to lean more toward their friends for help and then behave similar to their friends. When children behave in a way that is bad or behave in a different ways and then parents blame the children but the truth is that parents are not giving enough attention to children and worrying too much about other stuff that are not even as important as their children. So parents should pay more attention to their children by spending more time and finding out what their children needs and wants so they can provide the best for their children to be successful and become a better citizen.

1 comment:

  1. hmm, I do believe it's the parents, but may I ask...do you have kids of your own????

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